~ Why are some people shy? Why are some people out going? ~

Well the cause for shyness is- Self conscious, Insecurity, Trust issues, or lastly- Physical or emotional abuse by someone/s. You may think right now, maybe I am not good enough. That ties along with insecurity a.k.a self doubt. Majority of the time the person is always shy is because they were raised with too much expectation and pressure, or just hurt inside and no one was there for them to be open about it. The coping technique is keeping the feelings bottled up, and trust/ don't want anyone else to know. There winding the reasons up top- insecurity, trust issues and/or abuse. The only way that one shy person is outgoing/fun, etc.. Is they are used to that one person making them feel safe and open somewhat. Making them your best friend. But the bad part is they will get really jealous if anyone comes and interferes with your friendship, time spent, etc. Kinda like me ( Jessica ). I have/had a lot of issues which wound up growing up with hatred, and no trust due to emotional/physical abuse. Now look around, you see those out going people? All cheery and stuff. Well only reason they are like that is either someone or a lot of people love them very much, are open, has attention, and basically almost perfect environment setting. Now that doesn't count as they are not punish by their parents. They are when they deserve it or do something bad. These type of people never grew up with real pain. Or hiding their real self - breaks out of shy shell and I talk about this later -. All ways can lead up to getting in severe trouble, but usually... it is the want of attention from shy-ish/shell breaker/ pressure on the out going person also. There really isn't much to talk about an outgoing person because I basically covered it. They are happy and content- life is perfect almost -. Heres where the shell breaker from the shy person comes out from. They have those bad attention givers or good attention givers. For example- Popular mean girls/guys, or can be somewhat or not popular innocent ones that can understand you and unite, or just try to understand you. these affect from these humans can be either good or bad, or even make you stay same somewhat. It all varies who you meet. Now also on here there is no such thing as change. Things may altar your personality for temporarily but not permanent. Like being shy to outgoing, it's only for a bit, or a lot, but take that one person/s away; you are back to your regular self. These are the basics for human interactions, if you need more description/ have questions, email me and I will get back to you.( English on here isn't so well, didn't have enough time to re read it a lot, but this is as good as it gets for time being ) ~BLOG BY JESSICA~