~ Why do boyfriends/girlfriends cheat? ~

Well everyone has that one U(@*()&%Z0398755 ( LOL nicest way I can put it ). Anyways, Why do they do this? The answer is this- Revenge/Jealousy ( only because you did that to them ), they want more/ not given enough, or lastly a habit. I will explain in detail each step and their thought process. Let's say you guys are dating,  it seems perfect and you love each other, then you find out he or she cheated on you. It's not that they don't love you, or lied about loving you, they just wanted more. Why did they hide it from me then? Well because you are the closest thing to perfect to them, and didn't want to lose you. Let's say you had majority what they were looking for, but didn't give them enough sex ( could be more things like attention or whatever they feel lacked of), they believe they are entitled to have both. That is the average cheat. Now heres the accident one- that one night stand or whatever considered cheating to you, and only did it once, that goes back to saying you lacked either attention to give them, Sex, etc you name it. But they let it go out of control. I say for future relationships if they not perfect standards leave them, your in for a heart break. Do not accept anything less than your expectations. It is like this.... 100 dollars is your soul-mate, and rest of money- 99 and beneath are close ones to your soul-mate or no where near. Which one do you prefer? Don't settle for anything less, if you spend to much time with wrong person, your right one will slip away. Anyways back to the explanation-  I just finished up explaining about ones that love you and on accident cheated etc. The reasons above are why, don't accept them back, your in for another heartbreak. No matter how much you love them, they will do it again. You weren't perfect enough for the first time, you sure aren't for the second. Now next I don't need to go into detail of revenge, because you know well enough what you did to trigger it. Furthermore, lastly is a habit. That one person must of broke their heart really bad, or they cheated and loved that person very much and after you or whoever it was, they feel no one could ever be as good as him or her and just get their own simple pleasure of attention and/or sexual pleasure. That is the main thing people want. These people will never stop, or turn gay/lesbian and want a change. Once a cheater usually always is unless a huge opposing force, (could be their loss of their main love/ almost perfection) and change their ways to never cheat. These are the reasons for cheating or thoughts of cheating. Need any more advice about cheating/cheaters, or more descriptions, send an email to me. Or even tell me what extra things I can add  to this blog, you may leave a comment as well. ~BLOG BY JESSICA~

~ Why are some people shy? Why are some people out going? ~

Well the cause for shyness is- Self conscious, Insecurity, Trust issues, or lastly- Physical or emotional abuse by someone/s. You may think right now, maybe I am not good enough. That ties along with insecurity a.k.a self doubt. Majority of the time the person is always shy is because they were raised with too much expectation and pressure, or just hurt inside and no one was there for them to be open about it. The coping technique is keeping the feelings bottled up, and trust/ don't want anyone else to know. There winding the reasons up top- insecurity, trust issues and/or abuse. The only way that one shy person is outgoing/fun, etc.. Is they are used to that one person making them feel safe and open somewhat. Making them your best friend. But the bad part is they will get really jealous if anyone comes and interferes with your friendship, time spent, etc. Kinda like me ( Jessica ). I have/had a lot of issues which wound up growing up with hatred, and no trust due to emotional/physical abuse. Now look around, you see those out going people? All cheery and stuff. Well only reason they are like that is either someone or a lot of people love them very much, are open, has attention, and basically almost perfect environment setting. Now that doesn't count as they are not punish by their parents. They are when they deserve it or do something bad. These type of people never grew up with real pain. Or hiding their real self - breaks out of shy shell and I talk about this later -. All ways can lead up to getting in severe trouble, but usually... it is the want of attention from shy-ish/shell breaker/ pressure on the out going person also. There really isn't much to talk about an outgoing person because I basically covered it. They are happy and content- life is perfect almost -. Heres where the shell breaker from the shy person comes out from. They have those bad attention givers or good attention givers. For example- Popular mean girls/guys, or can be somewhat or not popular innocent ones that can understand you and unite, or just try to understand you. these affect from these humans can be either good or bad, or even make you stay same somewhat. It all varies who you meet. Now also on here there is no such thing as change. Things may altar your personality for temporarily but not permanent. Like being shy to outgoing, it's only for a bit, or a lot, but take that one person/s away; you are back to your regular self. These are the basics for human interactions, if you need more description/ have questions, email me and I will get back to you.( English on here isn't so well, didn't have enough time to re read it a lot, but this is as good as it gets for time being ) ~BLOG BY JESSICA~

~About Jessica and Christina~

Hello, My name is Jessica. Christina and I are sisters. We always have intelligent conversations and would like  other opinions to contribute to them. For example thinking of complex structural thinking such as the Brain, Mind behavior, Love, Sadness, etc. Almost everything you can think/know about. My sister is the older one and I am the younger one. We both have very high IQ's and talk almost all the time about puzzling things. Just recently we talked, and it was about mind behavior with way people think depending on emotional context of their face, Body language, and more -Such as insecurity coming about and readings-. My sister and I will be posting things (mainly me- Jessica -) about things that come across our minds, with facts involved to get others opinions or to have others consider it to. Probably about few times a week there will be posts about something that will hopefully soon, get the whole world to come into contact with the debating questions. Our plans will surely get front pages on the news page on Google, Yahoo, and hopefully many more.